She’s 92 and has dementia, but I feel bad keeping it a secret. Should I tell her? Usually I’d say that honesty is best, says our elder. But this time,…
I’m not “that guy” anymore
How can I show my friends that I’ve changed? Our elder has some tips on becoming “the interesting guy” instead. Dear EWC Growing up, I was never really into the…
My brother the manipulator
I love my brother but he’s thoughtless and entitled. Our elder thinks a few other adjectives might be appropriate… and has some suggestions on how to establish boundaries. Dear EWC…
“It’s me or the drink, babe!”
I usually drink 10-13 vodka shots at a time. My boyfriend wants me to cut down. What should I do? He is trying to help you, says our elder. If…
My mean neighbor and my son
I fell out with my neighbor and now she is taking it out on my son. How can I help him? Try killing her with kindness, suggests our elder. Dear…
I used to be an optimist…
And then came Covid. Our elder has some words of encouragement for a letter writer who is feeling overwhelmed in furlough. Dear EWC Like so many people right now I…
I’m trying for a baby…
… but I’m petrified after a miscarriage last year. The best advice I can give you is to speak to your doctor, says our elder. Dear EWC I’m asking for…
Cuckoo in the nest
My brother’s girlfriend moved in during the pandemic and now I feel miserable in my own house. It doesn’t help that my mom is close to her. Start by having…
No, she can’t borrow my car
My BF’s family is coming to visit and he wants me to lend my car to his sister. My gut says no. Am I wrong? Our elder suggests a compromise….
How can I boost my self esteem?
A couple of bad experiences with guys have left me at rock bottom. There’s nothing wrong with you, says our elder. Forgive yourself, move on, and learn to love yourself….