He could do with a makeover… but am I being a control freak? Not if you tread carefully, says our elder. Dear EWC I am 20 years old, in college,…
Your BF? He’s just OK
I asked my mom what she thought of my boyfriend and she wasn’t very enthusiastic. Can I make them get along? Don’t seek their approval, says our elder. Trust your…
Homeschool without parents?
I want to move out of home, but I still have to finish high school. Can I do this without my parents? Most of the country is homeschooling right now,…
I’m scared of marriage
My parents did not have a great relationship and I have a fear of marriage. What can I do? A fear of marriage is not uncommon, says our elder. Try…
Grand Canyon or summer job?
My friend is planning a summer road trip but I don’t know if I should go. Can we really do Florida to the Grand Canyon in a week? It sounds…
Relative’s text wasn’t funny
I texted a relative when they were at work and was a bit stung by their reply. Were they angry with me? Take them at their word, says our elder….
Quarantine relationship cracks
My boyfriend is not supporting me through quarantine — he won’t talk on the phone or Facetime. Should we break up? He does sound detached, says our elder. Maybe you…
Work newsletter woes
I contribute to a work newsletter and was disappointed to see that they edited out some of my latest column. Should I say anything? It’s all part of being a…
Rude in-laws; should I pay?
My daughter’s future mother-in-law has been off with me — but now she wants money for a baby shower. Should I pay? Yes, says our elder. She’s been rude, but…
Stay friends with drinking ex?
My boyfriend just broke things off because he wants to fix himself — but he still wants to be friends. Should we? Our elder has some very specific advice for…