I’ve been acting professionally for most of my life — so why didn’t I get a good part in my school play? You’re a professional, says our elder, so take…
He’s addicted to porn
My husband just confessed that he has a porn addiction, even though he knows it’s the one thing I won’t tolerate. Your feelings are natural, says our elder, but try…
My friend won’t talk to me
I get that she’s struggling. But I was there for her; why can’t she be there for me? Just let her know you are there for her when she’s ready,…
Mom called me a liar
My mom accused me of lying, and then she spied on me. Stay calm, says our elder, and try to smooth things over. She might be upset about events that…
Happy birthday — you’re dumped!
I want to break up with a boy I’ve been dating, but I don’t want to do it just before his birthday. Help! Don’t worry, says our elder. It’s only…
I don’t love my newborn son
Am I a monster? Certainly not, says our elder. You can still be a good dad. Leave yourself open to the possibility of loving your son — and stop comparing…
Help me up the ladder!
How can I become a better leader and manager? Our elder has some tried and tested tips for managing your team at work, as well as managing “up”. Dear EWC…
Should I let my family back in?
Life got better after I cut my family off, but I feel lost. Help! You broke with your family for a reason, says our elder. Take time to heal before…
Selfish to want a wedding?
My fiancé’s parents offered to pay for a wedding, or for a down payment on a house. We want the wedding! Is that wrong? My friend says it’s selfish. Who…
No job for a horse lover
How can I pay the rent doing what I love? Hang in there, says our elder. It may take time but you’re going to be fine. Dear EWC I have…