A letter writer is suffering from anxiety over the coronavirus epidemic. Can our elder reassure them? Dear EWC I am having such bad anxiety over this coronavirus epidemic. I worry…
Can’t cope with my kitten
My parents surprised me with a kitten for Christmas. Thing is, I have depression and this kitten is just one more thing to worry about. Don’t worry, says our elder….
America or my girlfriend?
My family wants to move back to the US, but the thing is, there’s this girl… You will meet many more cute girls in your lifetime, says our elder. Go…
Back in my shell
I broke with my toxic friends but it didn’t make me feel better. How can I break out and make new friends? You won’t feel lonely for long, says our…
No part for a child star
I’ve been acting professionally for most of my life — so why didn’t I get a good part in my school play? You’re a professional, says our elder, so take…
He’s addicted to porn
My husband just confessed that he has a porn addiction, even though he knows it’s the one thing I won’t tolerate. Your feelings are natural, says our elder, but try…
My friend won’t talk to me
I get that she’s struggling. But I was there for her; why can’t she be there for me? Just let her know you are there for her when she’s ready,…
Mom called me a liar
My mom accused me of lying, and then she spied on me. Stay calm, says our elder, and try to smooth things over. She might be upset about events that…
Happy birthday — you’re dumped!
I want to break up with a boy I’ve been dating, but I don’t want to do it just before his birthday. Help! Don’t worry, says our elder. It’s only…
I don’t love my newborn son
Am I a monster? Certainly not, says our elder. You can still be a good dad. Leave yourself open to the possibility of loving your son — and stop comparing…