I have an online friend in another state whose parents are abusive. Can she come and live with me? Be careful, warns our elder. She might not be who she…
Gran makes me feel unwanted
I live with my grandmother but we have a rough relationship. Should I move out? Rest assured that your grandmother loves you, says our elder. But it sounds like a…
BF’s bro tempts me every time
I’m sleeping with my best friend’s brother — we are risking a lot but we can’t stop. Our elder is in no doubt about the right thing to do. Dear…
They won’t even meet him!
My parents don’t approve of my boyfriend, but they haven’t even met him yet. How can I bring them together? Your parents are only trying to keep you safe, says…
Music teacher or police officer?
A high school senior is torn between two very different career paths. You don’t have to decide yet, says our elder. Dear EWC I am currently a high school senior…
No, you can’t buy my daughter
My ex is showering our daughter with gifts, and I know he will expect something in return. How can I deal with this? Keep communicating with your daughter, says our…
Get off my couch!
I need space — lots of space. How can I get my boyfriend to understand? It’s time for honest and open communication, says our elder. Set some ground rules. Dear…
Will my gym buddy beat me up?
He says I need to go to the gym every day, but my uncle disagrees. Listen to your uncle, says our elder, and don’t feel bullied into doing anything you…
So what if it’s used?
My brother’s ex generously hands down her daughter’s old clothes to our daughter, but my husband won’t accept them. How can I convince him? Our elder has a few strategies…
Is it my fault she’s depressed?
I hooked up with my best friend’s crush, and now she keeps telling me I’m the reason she’s depressed. You can’t give someone depression, says our elder. You deserve better…