I have been caring for my mom all on my own, but when she was in hospital all these people came out of the woodwork offering their support. Now she’s…
Why doesn’t she want sex?
My girlfriend won’t even sext online anymore — and I have needs! Women feel under pressure to perform, says our elder. Have a talk with her, and make her feel…
Triggered by volleyball coach
I was traumatized by my volleyball team, and even after switching colleges I still can’t let it go. Our elder has some suggestions for getting a monkey off your back…
What if I don’t get in?
There’s only one university I want to go to, and I’m scared for my mental health if they don’t accept me. How can I avoid the downward spiral? Our elder…
OK so you lost 50 pounds…
… but can you quit boasting about it now? Also: please stop with the drinking. Our elder counsels a letter writer who has multiple problems in her marriage. Dear EWC…
Blocked from my brother
My mom and brother had a bust-up, and I can’t afford to go and see him (he’s in the military) without her knowing. Our elder wouldn’t normally suggest going behind…
Should I bail on the family?
I work for the family business, but our client base is dwindling. Should I be trying to get out now? See if there is a way you can help grow…
I texted my sister’s bf
He seemed cool but says I weirded him out, and now my sis is mad at me. How can I stop feeling like a doofus? You crossed a boundary, says…
My Tinder date’s hand deformity
How should I address it when I meet her in person? I don’t want to be a jerk! Why not speak to her about it now, says our elder. It’s…
I missed choir due to migraines…
… and now my choir teacher feels like I let him down. Focus on the things you can change, says our elder, and have an honest conversation. Dear EWC My…