My mom and grandma were abusive — but they say I should be thankful! Should I distance myself from them? Absolutely, says our elder. You don’t owe them anything. Dear…
My twin daughters are clones!
It used to be cute; now it’s getting creepy. How can I get them out of this phase? You are right to encourage their individuality, says our elder. Just try…
Stressed out by mom’s divorce
My mom is going through a hard time, and I’m so busy helping with my brothers that there’s no time left for me. Talk to your mother, says our elder….
Newsflash! I don’t love you
My boyfriend suddenly said he stopped loving me. I’m pregnant! How did he change his mind that fast? His temper is a red flag, says our elder. Move on —…
Too old for plushies?
My mom wants me to get rid of my childhood toys, but I don’t want to! Should I be more grown-up at nearly 18? Our elder has some tips on…
Too angry to get to school
I yell and rant so much every morning that I often end up missing school. How can I change my behavior? Maybe your letter is a sign that you’re growing…
Polyamory problems
It was all going so well until I started falling for the ‘other’ guy. Then my husband got mad. Maybe he’s shown you what you’re missing in your marriage, suggests…
How can I escape my friend?
He invades my space and hunts me down if I don’t sit with him at lunch. It’s no wonder you’re tired of his behavior, says our elder. Not everybody is…
Watch me dance, Dad!
My dad lives abroad — but he can still come back for the weekend for my dance competition, right? Not necessarily, says our elder — but there is a possible…
How do I make her mine?
I’m in love with my first girl crush, and I think we have a chance. Our elder is optimistic but cautions: you can never “own” another person. Dear EWC I’ve…