I love what I do, but I’m struggling with debt. Should I make a career change? Don’t be scared, says our elder. Now is the time to build your resume,…
Rehearsal dinner drama
I had my son’s wedding rehearsal dinner all planned, but then the bride’s father took over. Now he wants $1,500! Should I pay up? Try not to take offense, says…
Can’t quit sex with BF’s ex
I’m sleeping with my ex best friend’s ex-husband. She rejected us both, and I don’t owe her anything, but should I still feel guilty? Our elder lays out the options….
My imaginary friend: I’m 29!
I created my imaginary friend when I was bullied growing up — but he’s still around. Don’t let him prevent you from reaching out for friendship, says our elder. Dear…
School is evil…
… and I’m not gonna drink the Kool-Aid. Can you help me get through the next two years of high school? Our elder can empathize — he dropped out of…
I need my husband by my side…
… All. The. Time. I know it annoys him, but I hate it when he wants to go out. Our elder suspects the letter writer’s new baby has a lot…
Left behind in war-torn Syria
My friends can afford to leave. I can’t. How will I cope with the loneliness after they’ve gone? Keep forming friendships while you can, says our elder. And you have…
Sorry Grandma, I’m done!
My grandparents live all over the US, and we just can’t afford it anymore. Help! Our elder has some tried-and-tested solutions for staying in touch with grandparents who live out…
Four wheels bad?
My boyfriend wants me to come with him on a four-wheel driving trip for his birthday. Thing is, I hate it! Do I have to go? You have my blessing…
Put the turkey down, Mom!
I’m not close with my family but they’re insisting on coming for Christmas this year. Even worse, my mom thinks she’s cooking for everyone! How can I tell them to…