… and she’s only 17! He’s unlikely to change, thinks our elder. You deserve better than second place. Dear EWC I’m a university student. I have known my boyfriend since…
Do I have to have children?
Everyone is telling me to, but I just don’t think I want them. Our happily childfree elder has some words of wisdom for a letter writer who doesn’t want to…
Uber or office job?
Am I crazy spending my nights giving rides to strangers just for a shot at a dream? A letter writer is torn between taking a job and juggling Uber with…
She’s leaving home
My oldest daughter is flying the nest and I’m already in tears about it. Our elder has some strategies for dealing with the empty nest — and technology has a…
Don’t I get a key?
My boyfriend just moved into his own place, but he won’t let me have a key. You aren’t actually entitled to one, says our elder. But please tell me you’re…
Did I waste my summer?
I’m doing an internship this summer, and I’m struggling — all the other interns are way ahead of me. Nothing lasts forever, says our elder. Take this opportunity to be…
Can’t she give us our space?
My mother-in-law is so needy! How can I get her to back off? She’s lonely, says our elder. Set some ground rules, and try to build a relationship with her…
Where’s my girl squad?
A letter writer is concerned that all her close friends are guys. Stop worrying, says our elder. Who needs bridesmaids anyway? Dear EWC From elementary school through 6th grade, about…
I want the old Dad back
Since my dad was diagnosed with MS, our relationship hasn’t been the same. Take a deep breath, says our elder, and resist the temptation to argue with him. There are…
My BF spent his mom’s money
That’s a red flag, right? Absolutely, says our elder. If his behaviour is creeping you out, it’s time to listen to your gut. Dear EWC I’m in love with my…