My husband left after I had an affair and he’s doing so much better without me. Am I a terrible person? Absolutely not, says our elder. You can save your…
Don’t do this to a rabbit!
My friend wants to get a rabbit. I think this is a really, really bad idea. How can I convince her not to? Our elder has a suggestion… Dear EWC…
A video shattered my heart
My boyfriend kissed his ex — and she sent me a video! Should I give him another chance? I think you know the answer to that, says our elder. Dear…
The Marines or my cat?
A letter writer wants to join the Marines — but his cat is seriously ill. Is it wrong to put your life on hold for a cat? There’s no rush,…
I confessed to my work crush…
… and now she’s distancing herself from me. How can I get our friendship back? She’ll need time and space, says our elder — but don’t expect things to be…
No sympathy for my sis-in-law
How can I help my codependent in-laws without getting sucked into their madness? You can’t change their behaviour, says our elder — but you can change your own attitude. Stop…
First kiss fears
My girlfriend and I are nervous about our first kiss — it will be the first time for both of us. Any tips? You can’t plan a kiss, says our…
Stop being so stubborn
A letter writer feels that she’s too argumentative, and she wants to change. It’s good to stand up for what you believe in, says our elder. How about channeling your…
I’ve got the college jitters!
I’m excited to head off to college — but scared at the same time. Can our elder help a high school senior prepare for the next stage? Dear EWC Hello!…
Lonely old lady’s poison pen
I used to have a good relationship with an elderly neighbor, but then she started leaving me nasty letters under the door… How can I resolve this peacefully? Our elder…