If I just keep quiet about my crush, will it go away? Er, no, says our elder. Talk it through with someone you trust. Dear EWC Hello, so I have…
I can change! No, really
He got drunk and insulted his girlfriend but now he wants her back. That depends on how she’s feeling, says our elder. Dear EWC So for the last couple of…
Should I tell my 15-year crush?
A letter writer is feeling frustrated: is it time to tell her friend how she really feels? Yes, yes, yes says our elder. Why waste any more time? Dear EWC…
I’m 18; he’s 14. Am I a cougar?
A letter writer finds romance on the internet but worries about the age difference. Our elder advises caution: a 14-year-old is still a child in the eyes of the law….
Rejected by my family in the ER
A letter writer confides: My family didn’t care when I was rushed to hospital. Our elder is stunned by their callousness and advises seeking independence as soon as possible….
Help! My friend is crushing on me
I already have a boyfriend. How can I make him stop? If he’s making you uncomfortable then you need to have a conversation, advises our elder. Dear EWC Hello…
Can I be a friend and a boss?
It’s not easy keeping people in line when you’re new to the role, finds a letter writer. Our elder has the experience to help her strike a balance. EWC…
In love with the local bad boy
A letter writer can’t tell her parents about her boyfriend because she knows they won’t approve. Our elder sympathizes: it can be tough coping with the rumors when you live…
I’m awkward around the new girl
Will my friends ditch me if I can’t win her over? Our elder puzzles over the dynamics of the college friendship group. Dear EWC Hello, I am a college…
Did I have sex on a cruise?
A letter writer worries that he has wrecked his relationship—but can’t remember what he did. Our elder has some wise words to help him get over the guilt trip. …