It started with schoolwork; now I’m worried about everything. Our elder knows all about negative thoughts. Talk to your parents, get some help, and start with small steps, she says….
Oops! I wasn’t an ally
During a conversation about sex, I might have inadvertently offended one of my friends. How do I make this right? Don’t stress, says our elder. She’ll appreciate an apology. …
And then the pandemic happened
This letter writer loved to study until Covid-19 hit. Now they just feel stuck. Can our elder help them get their mojo back? Dear EWC I’m a college…
Ghosted by my online crush
He made me feel bad so I deleted him. Did I do the right thing? You were right to unfollow him, says our elder. But I’d like to encourage you…
His kids come first. That’s OK.
This letter writer understands that her older boyfriend has to put his children first. Never mind that, says our elder – it’s the 10-year age gap that worries me. …
Is it arrogant to help someone?
When I help my classmates, I worry that I’m prideful. Am I faking my humility? Not at all, says our elder. You should be proud of being able to help…
My annoying brother
He deliberately winds me up, and puts me down in front of other people. He loves getting a rise out of you, says our elder. Don’t let him see that…
He never texts me first
Is this a sign that he isn’t interested? This letter writer is confused about a coworker. Our elder advises keeping it platonic for now – dating a colleague can be…
How do I announce baby #2?
I haven’t known the father long and I don’t want any more negative reactions. Why not start by simply introducing your new man, says our elder. You can share the…
Why don’t I have a goal?
This letter writer doesn’t have a big dream. Is it OK to live day to day? Those are existential questions, says our elder. But start with the small things and…