I’ve just started college but I still don’t know what I want to do. From pros and cons lists to a favorite book, our elder has some ideas. Dear…
She wouldn’t kiss me!
The date went really well, but when I asked for a kiss, she shied away. Don’t feel rejected, says our elder. Put it down to nerves and try again. …
I’m becoming who I want to be…
But the people around me are holding me back. Should I cut ties and leave? Life is a journey, says our elder. Some relationships don’t last the course – and…
That one time out of 10…
My best friend is great, but every so often they say something so hurtful it reduces me to tears. I can relate, says our elder. Start out by being your…
First job blues
This academic high flier is discovering that work isn’t making them happy. It’s likely that your dejection is only temporary, says our elder. Find the things that you enjoy outside…
Obsessed with Snapchat cheater
He lied and cheated but I can’t let go. You’re worth more than this, says our elder. Be honest with yourself and make a choice. Dear EWC For the…
Always being controlled
I’m always the one who changes for my partner. How can I get a better understanding of relationships? Our elder advises clarity, caution, and watching out for those red flags….
He’s toxic but I’m hooked
I’m in love with this guy but I keep getting hurt. We’ve all been there, says our elder. But if you think you deserve better then you need to let…
A new life in Cali?
I’ve fallen in love with Southern California and want to go there for college but my family and boyfriend are back East. Our elder says: Go! Explore life a little….
Drained by my job
This letter writer hates their job and wants their weekends back. Our elder might just have a solution. Dear EWC Hi, I suffer from depression and anxiety in which…