After some painful events, this letter writer is looking for someone to talk to but she can’t afford therapy. Our elder has some suggestions on how to learn to trust…
I have feelings for another girl
Should I come clean to my girlfriend? Lose the whole “I don’t want to hurt her” shtick, says our elder. Tell her what you’re up to and take your lumps….
How to survive hard times
A letter writer is looking for advice on getting through the pandemic. Our elder shares his experience of his wife’s illness, and his tips for keeping busy during Covid. …
Tasks terrify me
A student gets so stressed about managing their time that they have a hard time breathing sometimes. Can our elder help them find their motivation? Dear EWC I have…
Did he cheat? Well, nearly…
My boyfriend was tempted to kiss another girl and he’s only just told me about it. It’s great that he can be honest with you, says our elder. But do…
College in the UK
A student is considering crossing the Pond for college. It would be a wonderful opportunity, says our elder. Take time to do your research and remember that you can always…
A life on hold
My job, my relationship, even my faith: it’s all on hold. You are in control of your life, says our elder. It’s time to choose a more uplifted way to…
Dual enrollment, double stress
A student is struggling with a dual program but her parents want her to continue. The financial savings come with a mental and physical cost, says our elder. You should…
IT is not for me
I’m studying for a degree in Computer Science and I hate it! Should I switch careers? First, decide what you want to do, says our elder. Then you can start…
Learning to love myself
This letter writer is on a mission to make himself a better person but doesn’t know where to start. Our elder has some strategies for boosting self-esteem and living in…