“She is asking personal questions and trying to make choices for our coming baby. My partner won’t say anything to her. How do I handle it without just seeming mean?”…
Help Me Choose a Career That Will Fit My Interests
“I don’t need to get rich, but I want a job that will let me be myself and explore my talents.” Our Elder Says: Don’t settle for the first thing…
She Loves Him, But All They Do Is Fight
“Should I give up on my high school sweetheart?” Our Elder says: The reason for a relationship is to bring you happiness. If that is not working, it is okay…
Where Should I Move, and How Do I Tell My Parents I’m Leaving?
“My culture expects me to live with my parents after college, but I need to pursue my own life.” Our Elder says: “Being a mature adult includes having the courage…
“Stop Taking Antidepressants Or Else!”
“My boyfriend says that if I keep taking my medications and seeing a therapist, he will break up with me.” Our Elder advises: “Put yourself first and follow the advice…
I Am More Than the Color of My Skin.
“I strive to overcome every stereotype and to create joy, but it seems the world no longer appreciates a true gentleman.” Our Elder says: “Don’t give up. You have a…
I Wish My Life Was As Good As Theirs.
“My friends all have lots of money and find school easy, while I struggle with everything. How do I stop being jealous?” Our Elder team advises: “It is normal to…
Why Do My Friends Abandon Me?
“I make new friends, but they all drift away and I feel lonely. What should I do?” Our Elder says: “People have their own troubles and can’t always be there…
Looking for Mr. Right
“I’m ready for a relationship, but I’m very picky. What qualities should I look for?” Our Elder replies: “The more different people you date, the more you will understand what…
The Very Bad Roommate
“My roommate is so messy and makes so much noise that I am not getting enough sleep.” Our Elder says: “Establish firm boundaries and take care of yourself first. Your…