“I was planning an outing with a friend, then they went without me and never called.” Our Elder says: “You cannot control other people’s behavior, and friends are bound to …
Bad manners? Or Just Being a Responsible Employee
“My friend hung up on me abruptly to deal with work. I feel insulted.” Our Elder says: “Let it go, he had to do his job. But why was he…
Family Interferes With Long Distance Relationship
“Should I Give Up On a Boyfriend Who Puts Family Ahead of Me?” Our Elder says: “Relax and don’t take things so personally, But if he’s as bad as you…
They spread lies about me!
Backstabbers at my expensive school have ruined everything between me and my crush. Ignore the gossip, says our elder. Talk to your crush and set the record straight. Dear…
Social phobia and a ton of debt
How can I make a success of my life? Writing down your thoughts can help you figure it out, says our elder. Here’s some homework to get you started. …
Is it OK to change my mind?
I thought I had college all worked out but now I’m not so sure. There’s nothing irresponsible about switching course, says our elder. Give yourself time to figure out your…
I want her back!
Can this letter writer win his ex-girlfriend round? Our elder presents a detailed plan – but warns that there are no guarantees. Dear EWC It’s my joy meeting you….
I took them both for granted…
And now they’re gone. Our elder counsels a letter writer who wants to turn her grief into something good. Dear EWC Hi Elder Wisdom Circle. Thank you for taking the…
Am I controlling?
I don’t want my partner to go to ladies’ night without telling me – is that so wrong? Not at all, says our elder. You deserve to be treated with…
Will I meet someone like me?
This college student is finding it hard to make friends. You’ll never find someone exactly like you, says our elder. The key is to celebrate your individuality without regretting your…