“I like to play volleyball, but I want to participate in other school activities and clubs too. I’m not allowed to miss any practices, so I can’t do both. How…
My Boss Wrote Me Up And Never Told Me!
“I was on a company website and found out I was on a Performance Improvement Plan. I have proof that what she wrote is false. What should I do?” Our…
He Said He Wanted More Than a Fling, But Now We Barely Speak
“He broke off our relationship after just two weeks, I need to know if we are really done.” Our Elder Says: You don’t need him to tell you that it…
How Do I Set Boundaries With My Partner’s Controlling Sister?
“She is asking personal questions and trying to make choices for our coming baby. My partner won’t say anything to her. How do I handle it without just seeming mean?”…
Help Me Choose a Career That Will Fit My Interests
“I don’t need to get rich, but I want a job that will let me be myself and explore my talents.” Our Elder Says: Don’t settle for the first thing…
She Loves Him, But All They Do Is Fight
“Should I give up on my high school sweetheart?” Our Elder says: The reason for a relationship is to bring you happiness. If that is not working, it is okay…
Where Should I Move, and How Do I Tell My Parents I’m Leaving?
“My culture expects me to live with my parents after college, but I need to pursue my own life.” Our Elder says: “Being a mature adult includes having the courage…
“Stop Taking Antidepressants Or Else!”
“My boyfriend says that if I keep taking my medications and seeing a therapist, he will break up with me.” Our Elder advises: “Put yourself first and follow the advice…
I Am More Than the Color of My Skin.
“I strive to overcome every stereotype and to create joy, but it seems the world no longer appreciates a true gentleman.” Our Elder says: “Don’t give up. You have a…
I Wish My Life Was As Good As Theirs.
“My friends all have lots of money and find school easy, while I struggle with everything. How do I stop being jealous?” Our Elder team advises: “It is normal to…