My daughter won’t let me see my boyfriend when she comes to stay. Is that reasonable? Absolutely not, says our elder. Stand your ground. Dear EWC I’ve been widowed for…
Doing all the running
My friends don’t want to hang out anymore. Is it Covid – or is it me? Have an honest conversation with them, says our elder. At least you’ll know you…
Should I forgive my stepdad?
My parents are divorcing and I know it’s hard for my stepdad… but after a falling-out, he still owes me an apology, right? Give yourself a little time, says our…
My boyfriend is my only way out
I want to break up with my boyfriend but he’s the only escape from my toxic household. You’re not being fair to him, says our elder. Start planning now and…
Police academy or college?
I want to become a police officer to make a difference, but I don’t know how. Public Safety needs people like you, says our elder. Follow your dream! Dear EWC…
Ghosted by my best friend
I moved to a different state, and all of a sudden he just stopped replying to my messages. What should I do? Don’t take it personally, says our elder. Find…
I think she’s the one…
But we’ve only been on one date so far and now I’m having anxious thoughts. Down, boy, says our elder. Take it slow and easy, and don’t overthink things at…
Stepson won’t stop stealing
… and my wife lets him get away with it. You need to get her buy-in, says our elder, and seek professional help. His behaviour could be a cry for…
3 degrees but no job
Overeducated, under experienced, and I’m having to move back in with my family in my thirties. Help! First, says our elder, be proud of your achievements. A career counselor will…
Moving out but Dad keeps crying
I want to move into a house my grandparents left me, but my dad isn’t taking it well. Our elder warns against being held hostage to a parent’s emotions —…