… and my wife lets him get away with it. You need to get her buy-in, says our elder, and seek professional help. His behaviour could be a cry for…
3 degrees but no job
Overeducated, under experienced, and I’m having to move back in with my family in my thirties. Help! First, says our elder, be proud of your achievements. A career counselor will…
Moving out but Dad keeps crying
I want to move into a house my grandparents left me, but my dad isn’t taking it well. Our elder warns against being held hostage to a parent’s emotions —…
I’ve never dated a girl…
… and now I’m off to college. Will changing the way I look help me find the right girl? It sounds like you don’t need to change a thing, says…
I want to be a K-pop idol
But I’m not Korean. Also, I know it won’t make me happy. Your letter is very insightful, says our elder. Why not put in the work to become someone worthy…
What’s in the brown envelope?
It’s exam results day soon, and I’m dreading it. What if my parents and teachers are disappointed in me? It hasn’t happened yet, says our elder. Replace the negative fantasy…
Married to a momma’s boy
They’re constantly on the phone, and she even FaceTimes him topless! You’re going to have to talk with him, says our elder. This can’t continue. Dear EWC My husband is…
No, I don’t want to see Mom!
I am estranged from my mom but she just tried to establish contact. How can I deal with it? Why not write her a letter, says our elder. You don’t…
Guilty about friendzoning
I friendzoned a guy. He took it well but the guilt is making me feel sick! Don’t worry, says our elder. You didn’t do anything wrong. Just try and stay…
Why won’t she talk to me?
I love my coworker but she is never relaxed when she talks to me. Is it because I am always worried about my job? It does sound like she is…