I want to break up with my boyfriend but he’s the only escape from my toxic household. You’re not being fair to him, says our elder. Start planning now and…
Police academy or college?
I want to become a police officer to make a difference, but I don’t know how. Public Safety needs people like you, says our elder. Follow your dream! Dear EWC…
Ghosted by my best friend
I moved to a different state, and all of a sudden he just stopped replying to my messages. What should I do? Don’t take it personally, says our elder. Find…
I think she’s the one…
But we’ve only been on one date so far and now I’m having anxious thoughts. Down, boy, says our elder. Take it slow and easy, and don’t overthink things at…
Stepson won’t stop stealing
… and my wife lets him get away with it. You need to get her buy-in, says our elder, and seek professional help. His behaviour could be a cry for…
3 degrees but no job
Overeducated, under experienced, and I’m having to move back in with my family in my thirties. Help! First, says our elder, be proud of your achievements. A career counselor will…
Moving out but Dad keeps crying
I want to move into a house my grandparents left me, but my dad isn’t taking it well. Our elder warns against being held hostage to a parent’s emotions —…
I’ve never dated a girl…
… and now I’m off to college. Will changing the way I look help me find the right girl? It sounds like you don’t need to change a thing, says…
I want to be a K-pop idol
But I’m not Korean. Also, I know it won’t make me happy. Your letter is very insightful, says our elder. Why not put in the work to become someone worthy…
What’s in the brown envelope?
It’s exam results day soon, and I’m dreading it. What if my parents and teachers are disappointed in me? It hasn’t happened yet, says our elder. Replace the negative fantasy…