I like this guy but I’m worried about the age gap — he’s 15 years older than me! Is this too much? You’re both adults, says our elder. Give him…
My fiancé makes racist jokes
A letter writer and her fiancé don’t always agree on politics, but he’s really upset her this time. Should she be having second thoughts? Our elder gives it to her…
My boyfriend’s poly past
Why is my boyfriend being so secretive about his previous relationship — with a couple? It’s time to let go of his past, says our elder. Love is unconditional. Dear…
Am I in love or is it lust?
A letter writer likes kissing his girlfriend — but is he in love? Take a chance, says our elder, but keep some balance in your life too. Dear EWC Hi,…
No, mom, I won’t date him!
A letter writer feels she has to date a friend because her parents like him… but he makes her feel nauseous and stressed. Is she overreacting? Absolutely not, says our…
No, I’m not taking my top off
A letter writer is so ashamed of her body that she won’t let her boyfriend see her without her top. Stop chasing perfection, says our elder — I’m pretty sure…
Should I move in with him?
Living with my boyfriends has never worked out before, but this one is different… He sounds like a keeper, agrees our elder. Dear EWC I am a 24 year old…
Do our moms want me spanked?
My girlfriend says I need a spanking — and now I’m worried that she’s been discussing it with our moms. I doubt it, says our elder, but it sounds like…
He Said He Wanted More Than a Fling, But Now We Barely Speak
“He broke off our relationship after just two weeks, I need to know if we are really done.” Our Elder Says: You don’t need him to tell you that it…
She Loves Him, But All They Do Is Fight
“Should I give up on my high school sweetheart?” Our Elder says: The reason for a relationship is to bring you happiness. If that is not working, it is okay…