My best friend and I were once in a relationship, but now she’s moved on to someone else. Should I tell her that it’s breaking my heart? It’s hard, says…
My roller-girl regret
I saw a cute girl at the roller rink and I didn’t say anything to her. Now I can’t get her out of my head. Let this one go, says…
My mom found my nude pics…
… and she tried to call my long-distance boyfriend’s parents! Now he’s ghosted me. I miss him so much. Sure you do, says our elder. But maybe it’s time to…
We have unfinished business!
I’m obsessed with a family friend but she won’t talk to me. What can I do? Our elder has some blunt advice: Drop it now before she takes out a…
How old is too old?
I like this guy but I’m worried about the age gap — he’s 15 years older than me! Is this too much? You’re both adults, says our elder. Give him…
My fiancé makes racist jokes
A letter writer and her fiancé don’t always agree on politics, but he’s really upset her this time. Should she be having second thoughts? Our elder gives it to her…
My boyfriend’s poly past
Why is my boyfriend being so secretive about his previous relationship — with a couple? It’s time to let go of his past, says our elder. Love is unconditional. Dear…
Am I in love or is it lust?
A letter writer likes kissing his girlfriend — but is he in love? Take a chance, says our elder, but keep some balance in your life too. Dear EWC Hi,…
No, mom, I won’t date him!
A letter writer feels she has to date a friend because her parents like him… but he makes her feel nauseous and stressed. Is she overreacting? Absolutely not, says our…
No, I’m not taking my top off
A letter writer is so ashamed of her body that she won’t let her boyfriend see her without her top. Stop chasing perfection, says our elder — I’m pretty sure…