Can I get over my childhood trauma and learn to love someone? It will take courage, says our elder, but find a good therapist and start to claim the happiness…
I want my co-worker’s friend
A letter writer split from her boyfriend and now she has her eye on someone new. Slow down, says our elder. Learn to love yourself first. Dear EWC Recently,…
We are both toxic!
This letter writer and her boyfriend are always fighting. Can our elder help them separate their emotions from their behavior? Dear EWC My relationship right now is on the…
How can I get with my teacher?
I’m not giving up on this crush! The best advice I can give you is to wait for these feelings to pass, says our elder. Otherwise, you’re setting yourself up…
His friends hate me!
My boyfriend has forgiven me for cheating but his friends still disapprove. How should we navigate this? They’re only trying to protect him, says our elder. I am sure they…
A reluctant homecoming queen
I’ve been nominated for homecoming – but is it cheating on my boyfriend if I dance with the homecoming king? Not at all, says our elder. He’ll be proud of…
I have feelings for another girl
Should I come clean to my girlfriend? Lose the whole “I don’t want to hurt her” shtick, says our elder. Tell her what you’re up to and take your lumps….
Did he cheat? Well, nearly…
My boyfriend was tempted to kiss another girl and he’s only just told me about it. It’s great that he can be honest with you, says our elder. But do…
Can’t get over a breakup
I can’t see a future without my ex but he doesn’t see me that way anymore. You can’t make someone love you, says our elder. Make new friends, accept all…
Crushing on my co-worker
I love my boyfriend but I can’t help flirting with a guy at work. Am I a bad person? You’re not a bad person for wanting to explore, says our…