Should I come clean to my girlfriend? Lose the whole “I don’t want to hurt her” shtick, says our elder. Tell her what you’re up to and take your lumps….
Did he cheat? Well, nearly…
My boyfriend was tempted to kiss another girl and he’s only just told me about it. It’s great that he can be honest with you, says our elder. But do…
Can’t get over a breakup
I can’t see a future without my ex but he doesn’t see me that way anymore. You can’t make someone love you, says our elder. Make new friends, accept all…
Crushing on my co-worker
I love my boyfriend but I can’t help flirting with a guy at work. Am I a bad person? You’re not a bad person for wanting to explore, says our…
He’s only eight years old!
My girlfriend refuses to get along with my son so I gave her an ultimatum. Was I right to do that? I agree with you, says our elder. Your son…
My best friend’s college
A letter writer always planned to go to college with her best friend, but her boyfriend’s college is way more affordable. Can she risk losing her friend? You need to…
Will she go back to her ex?
I love my girlfriend but I’m scared she’ll leave me for her ex. Her ex isn’t the problem, says our elder; it’s your fear of rejection. Here’s how you can build…
My secret hookup
My friend is mad at me because I kissed her ex – but she didn’t know we were hooking up before she even dated him. Should I come clean? Absolutely,…
My boyfriends other girlfriend
He only chats to her online, but it’s ruining my sleep. Am I right to be worried? I’m not surprised you’re losing sleep, says our elder. He needs to address…
From astrology to anti-vaxxer
The mother of my son is taking conspiracy theories way too far. I’m embarrassed. What should I do? I can’t tell you for sure, says our elder. But get that…