I don’t know the answer to that, says our elder. But I can advise you to live your life as if he won’t. Move on as best you can. …
No, she isn’t cheating…
So why do I keep accusing her? A letter writer has trust issues, and it’s damaging his relationship. Work on yourself before attempting to fix things, says our elder. …
Am I being too picky?
I can’t see a future with my boyfriend and I feel like I’m drowning. It’s time to be honest with yourself, and with your boyfriend, says our elder. And, no…
Being sad to keep her happy
A letter writer’s girlfriend won’t stop texting her ex, and he feels like a doormat. Share your truth, says our elder – and listen to hers. Dear EWC I’m…
His ex is a prostitute…
Not only that, he cheated on me and they have an eight-year old child together! Our elder is not impressed with a letter writer’s choice of boyfriend. Dear EWC…
Those pics of his ex…
My boyfriend has pictures of his ex on his phone. That’s toxic, right? You’re right to feel confused, says our elder. It’s time for him to make up his mind….
A better college or my GF?
A letter writer is choosing between two colleges. He prefers the more respected college and the “college experience” – but his girlfriend wants to keep him close. Dear EWC…
Stop with all the questions!
I met this guy who fixed my AC, and now he won’t stop texting me personal questions. Help! You are right to be careful, says our elder. Set boundaries and…
He’s not even my boyfriend!
This guy I’ve been talking too is way too clingy. How can I get him off my back? Tell him you’re not interested, says our elder. Be determined but firm….
Falling in love with a friend
I’m gay, he’s straight. What if he drops me once he gets a girlfriend? Our elder recommends a short separation to preserve the long-term friendship. Dear EWC I am…