It was good at first but now I’m starting to feel used. The friends with benefits arrangement is full of flaws, says our elder. This guy is not the one….
I always play build-a-boyfriend
He could do with a makeover… but am I being a control freak? Not if you tread carefully, says our elder. Dear EWC I am 20 years old, in college,…
I’ve forgotten how to date
… and my conversation is not so hot either. Can our elder help a letter writer who has run out of things to say? Dear EWC I was in a…
Quarantine relationship cracks
My boyfriend is not supporting me through quarantine — he won’t talk on the phone or Facetime. Should we break up? He does sound detached, says our elder. Maybe you…
Vegas chapels are calling me
I want to marry my boyfriend and we happen to be in Las Vegas right now. Should I drag him to the chapel? Whoah, says our elder. Don’t do anything…
My HS crush — I’m 29!
I can’t stop thinking about my old high school crush and can’t stop Facebook stalking him. Help! Our elder has some tips for a letter writer whose 14-year-old heart is…
Stay friends with drinking ex?
My boyfriend just broke things off because he wants to fix himself — but he still wants to be friends. Should we? Our elder has some very specific advice for…
Friendzoned by work boss crush?
He’s not my actual boss… so I could still date him, right? Managers have to be careful, says our elder. Best to back off. Dear EWC At work I have…
Do we have to live together?
I love my boyfriend but living together made me anxious — so I moved out. Can our relationship work? There is more than one way to be in love, says…
Stuck in a rut
I’ve been with my fiancé for ten years and I’m not sure I want to stay with him. Think of the future, says our elder. Have a talk with him;…