… but how long should I wait before I ask her out? I don’t want to hurt my ex. Well you weren’t married to her, says our elder. It’s lovely…
Mom and Dad say he should pay!
My boyfriend and I take it in turns to pick up the tab, but they say he should pay for everything. Who’s right? That’s an outdated rule, says our elder….
What is “official”, exactly?
I’m hooking up with this guy but I don’t know if he is being sincere. You’ll have to have an honest conversation and ask him, says our elder. Don’t sell…
Friends with benefits
It was good at first but now I’m starting to feel used. The friends with benefits arrangement is full of flaws, says our elder. This guy is not the one….
I always play build-a-boyfriend
He could do with a makeover… but am I being a control freak? Not if you tread carefully, says our elder. Dear EWC I am 20 years old, in college,…
I’ve forgotten how to date
… and my conversation is not so hot either. Can our elder help a letter writer who has run out of things to say? Dear EWC I was in a…
Quarantine relationship cracks
My boyfriend is not supporting me through quarantine — he won’t talk on the phone or Facetime. Should we break up? He does sound detached, says our elder. Maybe you…
Vegas chapels are calling me
I want to marry my boyfriend and we happen to be in Las Vegas right now. Should I drag him to the chapel? Whoah, says our elder. Don’t do anything…
My HS crush — I’m 29!
I can’t stop thinking about my old high school crush and can’t stop Facebook stalking him. Help! Our elder has some tips for a letter writer whose 14-year-old heart is…
Stay friends with drinking ex?
My boyfriend just broke things off because he wants to fix himself — but he still wants to be friends. Should we? Our elder has some very specific advice for…