He’s not my actual boss… so I could still date him, right? Managers have to be careful, says our elder. Best to back off. Dear EWC At work I have…
Do we have to live together?
I love my boyfriend but living together made me anxious — so I moved out. Can our relationship work? There is more than one way to be in love, says…
Stuck in a rut
I’ve been with my fiancé for ten years and I’m not sure I want to stay with him. Think of the future, says our elder. Have a talk with him;…
BF’s bro tempts me every time
I’m sleeping with my best friend’s brother — we are risking a lot but we can’t stop. Our elder is in no doubt about the right thing to do. Dear…
They won’t even meet him!
My parents don’t approve of my boyfriend, but they haven’t even met him yet. How can I bring them together? Your parents are only trying to keep you safe, says…
Get off my couch!
I need space — lots of space. How can I get my boyfriend to understand? It’s time for honest and open communication, says our elder. Set some ground rules. Dear…
Too ugly for love
I’m overweight, and my self hatred is driving my boyfriend away. You are more than the numbers on a scale, says our elder. Your best years are ahead of you….
Why doesn’t she want sex?
My girlfriend won’t even sext online anymore — and I have needs! Women feel under pressure to perform, says our elder. Have a talk with her, and make her feel…
My Tinder date’s hand deformity
How should I address it when I meet her in person? I don’t want to be a jerk! Why not speak to her about it now, says our elder. It’s…
Did I rush into things?
I just broke up with my girlfriend and went straight into another relationship. Trouble is, I don’t feel very sure. Why not try being unattached for a while, asks our…