My boyfriend lashes out when I ask him to do something… like open the door for the plumber! Am I being unreasonable? His behavior doesn’t sound normal, says our elder….
Does he just want a warm body?
My friend with benefits says he isn’t ready for a relationship. Should I leave him? Absolutely, says our elder. He’s unlikely to change. Dear EWC So I have a weird…
Newsflash! I don’t love you
My boyfriend suddenly said he stopped loving me. I’m pregnant! How did he change his mind that fast? His temper is a red flag, says our elder. Move on —…
How do I make her mine?
I’m in love with my first girl crush, and I think we have a chance. Our elder is optimistic but cautions: you can never “own” another person. Dear EWC I’ve…
Do nude pics count as cheating?
My girlfriend forgave me for accepting a nude from someone else, but I still feel bad. The past is past, says our elder. You’re not a cheater; just curious. Dear…
Blocked by my LDR
My boyfriend accused me of being fake and now he’s ghosted me. I didn’t do anything wrong! It sounds like he did you a favor, says our elder. You deserve…
GF won’t let me go to a funeral
My girlfriend is trying to stop me traveling for a funeral, and to see family members who are in poor health. How can I get her to understand? Whoah, that’s…
Can’t quit sex with BF’s ex
I’m sleeping with my ex best friend’s ex-husband. She rejected us both, and I don’t owe her anything, but should I still feel guilty? Our elder lays out the options….
Four wheels bad?
My boyfriend wants me to come with him on a four-wheel driving trip for his birthday. Thing is, I hate it! Do I have to go? You have my blessing…
My boyfriend is too short!
He loves me, but I just can’t see myself marrying him. It sounds like you don’t really love him, says our elder. If you did, his height wouldn’t matter. Dear…