My friend with benefits says he isn’t ready for a relationship. Should I leave him? Absolutely, says our elder. He’s unlikely to change. Dear EWC So I have a weird…
Newsflash! I don’t love you
My boyfriend suddenly said he stopped loving me. I’m pregnant! How did he change his mind that fast? His temper is a red flag, says our elder. Move on —…
How do I make her mine?
I’m in love with my first girl crush, and I think we have a chance. Our elder is optimistic but cautions: you can never “own” another person. Dear EWC I’ve…
Do nude pics count as cheating?
My girlfriend forgave me for accepting a nude from someone else, but I still feel bad. The past is past, says our elder. You’re not a cheater; just curious. Dear…
Blocked by my LDR
My boyfriend accused me of being fake and now he’s ghosted me. I didn’t do anything wrong! It sounds like he did you a favor, says our elder. You deserve…
GF won’t let me go to a funeral
My girlfriend is trying to stop me traveling for a funeral, and to see family members who are in poor health. How can I get her to understand? Whoah, that’s…
Can’t quit sex with BF’s ex
I’m sleeping with my ex best friend’s ex-husband. She rejected us both, and I don’t owe her anything, but should I still feel guilty? Our elder lays out the options….
Four wheels bad?
My boyfriend wants me to come with him on a four-wheel driving trip for his birthday. Thing is, I hate it! Do I have to go? You have my blessing…
My boyfriend is too short!
He loves me, but I just can’t see myself marrying him. It sounds like you don’t really love him, says our elder. If you did, his height wouldn’t matter. Dear…
My GF literally makes me sick!
I was sick one night when I was with my girlfriend, and now I can’t even think about her without feeling nauseous. Help! Our elder has some reassuring words. Dear…