My girlfriend just wants to write letters instead of talking on the phone — or even seeing each other! Am I crazy to go along with this? Well it doesn’t…
Oops! I’m in love by accident
I’ve fallen in love with my summer fling. Should I tell him before I move away? Best not says our elder — stay friends and see how you both feel…
Should I invite my crush?
I want to invite him to my birthday party, but he’d be the only boy. Whoah, says our elder. Too much too soon! Hold off for now, and maybe you…
My poly bf has another girl
… and she’s only 17! He’s unlikely to change, thinks our elder. You deserve better than second place. Dear EWC I’m a university student. I have known my boyfriend since…
Don’t I get a key?
My boyfriend just moved into his own place, but he won’t let me have a key. You aren’t actually entitled to one, says our elder. But please tell me you’re…
My BF spent his mom’s money
That’s a red flag, right? Absolutely, says our elder. If his behaviour is creeping you out, it’s time to listen to your gut. Dear EWC I’m in love with my…
How do I end it with him?
After a few dates, I don’t want to see this guy anymore. How do I tell him? Just be truthful, says our elder. Dear EWC How do I tell a…
Watch out, prof…
I plan to make a move on my professor as soon as I graduate — he’s not married, so it’s OK, right? This is all sorts of wrong, says our…
Should I give to BF’s GoFundMe?
My boyfriend is leaving to move to Spain, and he’s asking for online donations. Should I help him out? Our elder has some blunt advice for a letter writer who…
BF sniffed my mom’s underwear!
Should I take him back? You might want to think very carefully about that, says our elder. Dear EWC I recently caught my boyfriend sniffing my mom’s underwear while he…