I plan to make a move on my professor as soon as I graduate — he’s not married, so it’s OK, right? This is all sorts of wrong, says our…
Should I give to BF’s GoFundMe?
My boyfriend is leaving to move to Spain, and he’s asking for online donations. Should I help him out? Our elder has some blunt advice for a letter writer who…
BF sniffed my mom’s underwear!
Should I take him back? You might want to think very carefully about that, says our elder. Dear EWC I recently caught my boyfriend sniffing my mom’s underwear while he…
My bf’s parents are so strict!
I can’t see my boyfriend over the summer because his parents are always punishing him. Even my mom can’t convince them to relent. Love can conquer all, says our elder…
How to contact my Insta crush?
I have a crush on a girl I follow on Instagram — but I live 70km away. Should I message her? Whoah, says our elder. Send a harmless message, but…
A video shattered my heart
My boyfriend kissed his ex — and she sent me a video! Should I give him another chance? I think you know the answer to that, says our elder. Dear…
First kiss fears
My girlfriend and I are nervous about our first kiss — it will be the first time for both of us. Any tips? You can’t plan a kiss, says our…
BF won’t let me reduce my GGs!
I really want to have a breast reduction to help with severe back pain, but my boyfriend says he won’t be attracted to me anymore. What should I do? Run,…
The pants are staying!
I helped my boyfriend shop for an outfit for a family event, but now his sister’s taking over — and I feel hurt. Our elder suspects there might be more…
He’s addicted to gambling
My boyfriend is so addicted to sports betting, he once checked his phone 25 times during a movie. What can I do? Our elder has experience of a loved one’s…