One makes an effort, the other doesn’t even bother to text. Can our elder help this letter writer decide between them? Dear EWC D told me Saturday that he…
My crush and her toxic gf
I really like this girl but her abusive partner won’t let her go. What do I do? I’m afraid there’s nothing you can do, says our elder. Move on and…
Exhausted by my ex
He wanted me to meet his new girlfriend! How can I move on? You can’t stop yourself thinking about him, says our elder. But you can start thinking about you….
When I drink, I call my ex
I miss her! Why is she ignoring me? It’s not easy to move on after a breakup, says our elder. But it’s time for you to meet new people and…
Loneliness is my plus one
How can I feel content being single? That’s a universal question, says our elder. Fill your life with new experiences, places and people and you’ll be amazed at what can…
His kids come first. That’s OK.
This letter writer understands that her older boyfriend has to put his children first. Never mind that, says our elder – it’s the 10-year age gap that worries me. …
He never texts me first
Is this a sign that he isn’t interested? This letter writer is confused about a coworker. Our elder advises keeping it platonic for now – dating a colleague can be…
Fools rush in…
After a failed relationship, this letter writer has met a nice guy but is scared of making a move. Don’t be put off by your last experience, says our elder….
I told my doctor I love him
Then he canceled my next appointments! What if I never speak to him again? It’s not uncommon to fall for your doctor, says our elder. But it’s time to find…
I missed one message…
… and now she’s dumped me! This letter writer’s girlfriend expected him to drop everything whenever she wanted. Let her go and take your time to heal, says our elder….