My parents won’t let me date my boyfriend because of his hometown. Should we break up? That depends, says our elder. It’s time to think about the long term. Dear…
He’s manipulating me
My boyfriend says he’ll only stay with me if we carry on living together – but things need to change. They sure do, says our elder. It’s time to save…
No more drama
He left me for another girl and then he went to jail – but we’re giving it another try. Can we make it work? Not without trust, says our elder….
Scared of rejection
I have a crush on this guy – how can I tell him without making it awkward? Our elder has a script. Dear EWC I’ve had a crush on…
From first kiss to bootcamp
I met a girl but I’m joining the Marines. Should I break it off now to save heartache later on? Not necessarily, says our elder. Make the most of the…
Playing the playboy
I want to date girls but I don’t want to look like a playboy. Should I keep asking them out? For sure, says our elder. Just treat the girls you…
Stay or start dating?
I don’t know if I want to stay with my boyfriend but I don’t want to break his heart. Our elder counsels a 21 year old who’s never had a…
Partners in trauma
This letter writer is having family issues and doesn’t want to drag her boyfriend down. Separate your relationship from your trauma, says our elder. Then trust your gut. Dear…
Closing the distance
This letter writer is studying in the US, while her boyfriend is in the UK. Should she move there? Should he move here? One of you might need to be…
Long-distance love or the FBI?
My boyfriend lives across the pond – which makes my dream career in the CIA or FBI a little tricky. Our elder helps this letter writer assess her options. …