Dating/Relationship

We hang out but it doesn’t feel like dating. Is this the guy for me?  Enjoy your time together and take the time to assess the way you feel, says…

Well, I did cheat on him twice… This letter writer is back with her boyfriend, but his friends have concerns.  They’re only trying to protect him, says our elder. Give…

My summer fling keeps popping up and I can’t get him out of my head.  Stop feeding your crush, says our elder, and let go of the fantasy.   Dear…

My partner has supported me through some tough times but she can be hurtful too.  You deserve to be respected, says our elder. Is she the right partner for you?…

This letter writer can’t stop thinking about a guy from her hometown but she hurt him very badly.  Make it as right as you can, says our elder. Apologize, and…

A letter writer needs space to grieve her former relationship – but her current boyfriend is in the way.  You know what you need, says our elder. Give yourself that…

My problems are affecting my marriage; I want to fix myself.  You’re smart to recognize you need help, says our elder. Make an appointment with your doctor and take it…

My boyfriend is a bit too popular and I’m worried he’ll leave me. What are you so afraid of, asks our elder. Let him go – you’re a complete person…

He has no time for me and I feel like I’m a burden. You’re not the burden, says our elder – he is. Ask yourself if this relationship is really…

I met my ideal guy. We kissed. And then… nothing. Am I being foolish?  Not at all, says our elder. Stop making assumptions, take it slow, and see where it…