My problems are affecting my marriage; I want to fix myself. You’re smart to recognize you need help, says our elder. Make an appointment with your doctor and take it…
Girls love him; I’m anxious
My boyfriend is a bit too popular and I’m worried he’ll leave me. What are you so afraid of, asks our elder. Let him go – you’re a complete person…
My boyfriend is always “busy”
He has no time for me and I feel like I’m a burden. You’re not the burden, says our elder – he is. Ask yourself if this relationship is really…
Why didn’t he chase me?
I met my ideal guy. We kissed. And then… nothing. Am I being foolish? Not at all, says our elder. Stop making assumptions, take it slow, and see where it…
Community college + boyfriend?
Or straight to university? This letter writer is weighing up her college options. Our elder suggests listing out the pros and cons – and leaving her boyfriend out of it….
So anxious my throat closes up
A letter writer is happy with her boyfriend – so why does she feel so anxious? Our elder tries to get to the root of her anxiety, and encourages her…
His new friends don’t like me
This letter writer is feeling anxious because he doesn’t get along with his boyfriend’s other friends. Accept that you don’t live in a bubble, says our elder. Talk to each…
I put down the guys I date
Is it time to stop belittling them? A letter writer is questioning herself after a bad breakup. Stop seeing men as competition, says our elder, and look at them as…
It started so well!
But now my new boyfriend is starting to lose interest. Did I do something wrong? Don’t take it personally, says our elder. Remember, dating is all about trial and error….
Will braces be a turn-off?
This letter writer is feeling positive about her crush… but will he go off her when she gets braces? You sound like a positive person, says our elder. Tell him…