Or straight to university? This letter writer is weighing up her college options. Our elder suggests listing out the pros and cons – and leaving her boyfriend out of it….
So anxious my throat closes up
A letter writer is happy with her boyfriend – so why does she feel so anxious? Our elder tries to get to the root of her anxiety, and encourages her…
His new friends don’t like me
This letter writer is feeling anxious because he doesn’t get along with his boyfriend’s other friends. Accept that you don’t live in a bubble, says our elder. Talk to each…
I put down the guys I date
Is it time to stop belittling them? A letter writer is questioning herself after a bad breakup. Stop seeing men as competition, says our elder, and look at them as…
It started so well!
But now my new boyfriend is starting to lose interest. Did I do something wrong? Don’t take it personally, says our elder. Remember, dating is all about trial and error….
Will braces be a turn-off?
This letter writer is feeling positive about her crush… but will he go off her when she gets braces? You sound like a positive person, says our elder. Tell him…
She wouldn’t kiss me!
The date went really well, but when I asked for a kiss, she shied away. Don’t feel rejected, says our elder. Put it down to nerves and try again. …
Obsessed with Snapchat cheater
He lied and cheated but I can’t let go. You’re worth more than this, says our elder. Be honest with yourself and make a choice. Dear EWC For the…
Always being controlled
I’m always the one who changes for my partner. How can I get a better understanding of relationships? Our elder advises clarity, caution, and watching out for those red flags….
He’s toxic but I’m hooked
I’m in love with this guy but I keep getting hurt. We’ve all been there, says our elder. But if you think you deserve better then you need to let…