My summer fling keeps popping up and I can’t get him out of my head. Stop feeding your crush, says our elder, and let go of the fantasy. Dear…
Is my relationship healthy?
My partner has supported me through some tough times but she can be hurtful too. You deserve to be respected, says our elder. Is she the right partner for you?…
I’m sorry I broke your heart
This letter writer can’t stop thinking about a guy from her hometown but she hurt him very badly. Make it as right as you can, says our elder. Apologize, and…
I need to be alone
A letter writer needs space to grieve her former relationship – but her current boyfriend is in the way. You know what you need, says our elder. Give yourself that…
Anxiety v my relationship
My problems are affecting my marriage; I want to fix myself. You’re smart to recognize you need help, says our elder. Make an appointment with your doctor and take it…
Girls love him; I’m anxious
My boyfriend is a bit too popular and I’m worried he’ll leave me. What are you so afraid of, asks our elder. Let him go – you’re a complete person…
My boyfriend is always “busy”
He has no time for me and I feel like I’m a burden. You’re not the burden, says our elder – he is. Ask yourself if this relationship is really…
Why didn’t he chase me?
I met my ideal guy. We kissed. And then… nothing. Am I being foolish? Not at all, says our elder. Stop making assumptions, take it slow, and see where it…
Community college + boyfriend?
Or straight to university? This letter writer is weighing up her college options. Our elder suggests listing out the pros and cons – and leaving her boyfriend out of it….
So anxious my throat closes up
A letter writer is happy with her boyfriend – so why does she feel so anxious? Our elder tries to get to the root of her anxiety, and encourages her…