I really like this guy, but my mom wanted to meet him before we even went on our first date! If he’s a decent guy, he’ll agree to meet her,…
Dad won’t take care of Mom
My mom has cancer and my dad is not stepping up — he won’t even give her enough medication. You need a support group, says our elder. Why not start…
Where’s the fam, honey?
My boyfriend never sees his family. Is that normal? Well it’s definitely something to keep an eye on, says our elder. Dear EWC I have just been to my boyfriend’s…
Can’t cope with my kitten
My parents surprised me with a kitten for Christmas. Thing is, I have depression and this kitten is just one more thing to worry about. Don’t worry, says our elder….
Mom called me a liar
My mom accused me of lying, and then she spied on me. Stay calm, says our elder, and try to smooth things over. She might be upset about events that…
Gran makes me feel unwanted
I live with my grandmother but we have a rough relationship. Should I move out? Rest assured that your grandmother loves you, says our elder. But it sounds like a…
Should I save my sister?
My younger sister is homeless. Should I help her get back on her feet? It’s an awesome goal, says our elder. But you need to have a serious talk with…
A good dad (just not the drugs)
I left my ex because he did drugs and wouldn’t get a job. Trouble is, my son really misses him and they have a good relationship. Did I do the…
Yes, you can help!
I have been caring for my mom all on my own, but when she was in hospital all these people came out of the woodwork offering their support. Now she’s…
Blocked from my brother
My mom and brother had a bust-up, and I can’t afford to go and see him (he’s in the military) without her knowing. Our elder wouldn’t normally suggest going behind…