I asked my mom what she thought of my boyfriend and she wasn’t very enthusiastic. Can I make them get along? Don’t seek their approval, says our elder. Trust your…
Relative’s text wasn’t funny
I texted a relative when they were at work and was a bit stung by their reply. Were they angry with me? Take them at their word, says our elder….
Rude in-laws; should I pay?
My daughter’s future mother-in-law has been off with me — but now she wants money for a baby shower. Should I pay? Yes, says our elder. She’s been rude, but…
Too early for him to meet Mom?
I really like this guy, but my mom wanted to meet him before we even went on our first date! If he’s a decent guy, he’ll agree to meet her,…
Dad won’t take care of Mom
My mom has cancer and my dad is not stepping up — he won’t even give her enough medication. You need a support group, says our elder. Why not start…
Where’s the fam, honey?
My boyfriend never sees his family. Is that normal? Well it’s definitely something to keep an eye on, says our elder. Dear EWC I have just been to my boyfriend’s…
Can’t cope with my kitten
My parents surprised me with a kitten for Christmas. Thing is, I have depression and this kitten is just one more thing to worry about. Don’t worry, says our elder….
Gran makes me feel unwanted
I live with my grandmother but we have a rough relationship. Should I move out? Rest assured that your grandmother loves you, says our elder. But it sounds like a…
A good dad (just not the drugs)
I left my ex because he did drugs and wouldn’t get a job. Trouble is, my son really misses him and they have a good relationship. Did I do the…
Yes, you can help!
I have been caring for my mom all on my own, but when she was in hospital all these people came out of the woodwork offering their support. Now she’s…