I left my ex because he did drugs and wouldn’t get a job. Trouble is, my son really misses him and they have a good relationship. Did I do the…
Yes, you can help!
I have been caring for my mom all on my own, but when she was in hospital all these people came out of the woodwork offering their support. Now she’s…
Blocked from my brother
My mom and brother had a bust-up, and I can’t afford to go and see him (he’s in the military) without her knowing. Our elder wouldn’t normally suggest going behind…
I texted my sister’s bf
He seemed cool but says I weirded him out, and now my sis is mad at me. How can I stop feeling like a doofus? You crossed a boundary, says…
My brother is a slob
His bedroom stinks! How can I get him to keep it clean? Well — you can’t, says our elder. But if you quit nagging, there might be another way to…
Angry mom needs help
My teens won’t talk to me because I am so explosive. I even slapped my daughter. Help! Try to let go of ideas of “right and wrong”, says our elder….
Help! I gave myself a tattoo
… and now I regret it! How do I tell my parents? Try some probing questions first, suggests our elder. But don’t worry too much; we all do things we…
I hate your boyfriend, sis!
My sister and I used to be really close, but now her trashy boyfriend has come between us. There’s no easy answer, says our elder. Be patient and keep the…
No, you can’t have my new dog!
My two aunts have fallen in love with my family’s new greyhound and now we’re all fighting over her! You need to figure out what’s best for the dog, says…
Back off about my weight, Dad!
I’ve worked hard to become comfortable with my body, but my dad is still on my case. You sound intelligent and self-confident, says our elder. Let your dad know you…