They say they can’t afford it, but it makes me angry. Well, maybe they can’t, says our elder. Being angry is a waste of energy. Dear EWC I currently live…
My dad’s mean trick
My sister and I lost a bet with our dad, but we don’t think he played fair. Can he hold us to it? Not if he cheated, says our elder….
I want to come out to my parents
… but my mom lives halfway across the country and my dad is pretty conservative. Our elder has some suggestions for laying the groundwork. Dear EWC I was planning on…
His dog’s secret seizures
My husband’s dog might have to be put down, but his mom won’t let me tell him (he’s away with the military). Should I betray her confidence? Let him know…
Surprise! We’re back together!
I’ve decided to get back with my ex-fiancé — but how do I tell my family? Don’t ask for their permission, advises our elder. My old running coach has a…
I can’t take my toxic family
My mom and grandma were abusive — but they say I should be thankful! Should I distance myself from them? Absolutely, says our elder. You don’t owe them anything. Dear…
Stressed out by mom’s divorce
My mom is going through a hard time, and I’m so busy helping with my brothers that there’s no time left for me. Talk to your mother, says our elder….
Watch me dance, Dad!
My dad lives abroad — but he can still come back for the weekend for my dance competition, right? Not necessarily, says our elder — but there is a possible…
I don’t “love” my stepdaughter
My fiancé’s daughter has been in my life for three years, but I don’t feel that I love her yet. Is this wrong? Don’t be so hard on yourself, says…
What did my aunt do to me?
Every time I think about her, I cry — but I don’t remember what happened. It’s time you took some steps to find out, say our elders. Whatever you discover,…