My husband’s dog might have to be put down, but his mom won’t let me tell him (he’s away with the military). Should I betray her confidence? Let him know…
Surprise! We’re back together!
I’ve decided to get back with my ex-fiancé — but how do I tell my family? Don’t ask for their permission, advises our elder. My old running coach has a…
I can’t take my toxic family
My mom and grandma were abusive — but they say I should be thankful! Should I distance myself from them? Absolutely, says our elder. You don’t owe them anything. Dear…
Stressed out by mom’s divorce
My mom is going through a hard time, and I’m so busy helping with my brothers that there’s no time left for me. Talk to your mother, says our elder….
Watch me dance, Dad!
My dad lives abroad — but he can still come back for the weekend for my dance competition, right? Not necessarily, says our elder — but there is a possible…
I don’t “love” my stepdaughter
My fiancé’s daughter has been in my life for three years, but I don’t feel that I love her yet. Is this wrong? Don’t be so hard on yourself, says…
What did my aunt do to me?
Every time I think about her, I cry — but I don’t remember what happened. It’s time you took some steps to find out, say our elders. Whatever you discover,…
Wedding dress woes
My brother’s girlfriend wants to come to my wedding dress fittings but it’s getting kinda crowded. Am I being unreasonable? Not at all, says our elder. Stand up for yourself,…
It’s Dad’s fault I hate piano!
I used to love playing the piano, but I’m losing my passion for it. Is my dad’s criticism to blame, or am I just looking for an excuse? It sounds…
Rehearsal dinner drama
I had my son’s wedding rehearsal dinner all planned, but then the bride’s father took over. Now he wants $1,500! Should I pay up? Try not to take offense, says…