Was it wrong to ask my sister not to bring her pit bull for Thanksgiving dinner? Absolutely not, says our elder Dear EWC I invited my sister and her grown…
How can I get Snapchat back?
She posted bad stuff on Snapchat so her mom deleted her account. Have you really learned your lesson, asks our elder. A couple months ago, I posted bad things on…
Dad’s a cheater; do I tell Mom?
A letter writer feels stuck in the middle. Let it go, advises our elder. Dear EWC A few months ago my dad was found cheating. It was going on for…
Too emo for my mom
A letter writer’s mom gets mad when she starts to cry. Our elder hopes that their own experience can help. Dear EWC I cry so easily. Whether it be watching…
A family party from hell
My uncle is dying but my mother literally makes my wife sick. Can we all just get along? Erm, unlikely, says our elder. Dear EWC Good morning, So, I have…
My sister thinks I’m a servant!
A letter writer’s sister takes sibling squabbles to a whole new level. Can our elder help him find some strategies to deal with her behavior? Dear EWC I am a…
My uncle is creeping me out
A letter writer’s uncle started messaging her, and then it all got uncomfortable. Should she tell her family? Our elder has some sage advice. Dear EWC Recently my uncle started…
Should I stay or should I go?
My partner needs me overseas; my adult son needs me here. How can I be with both of them at the same time? It’s a tough one, says our elder….
Father-in-law won’t take the hint
Her needy father-in-law is seriously cramping their style. Our elder has some tips on helping him to get out of the house. Dear EWC My husband and I have been…
Rejected by my family in the ER
A letter writer confides: My family didn’t care when I was rushed to hospital. Our elder is stunned by their callousness and advises seeking independence as soon as possible….