A letter writer’s brother went to college and now he won’t stop fighting with their mom. Stay out of their arguments, says our elder, and tell yourself the things you…
She Wants to Join Different School Clubs, But Her Parents Make Her Play Sports Full Time
“I like to play volleyball, but I want to participate in other school activities and clubs too. I’m not allowed to miss any practices, so I can’t do both. How…
How Do I Set Boundaries With My Partner’s Controlling Sister?
“She is asking personal questions and trying to make choices for our coming baby. My partner won’t say anything to her. How do I handle it without just seeming mean?”…
I don’t want to be a burden
This letter writer is grieving after losing their grandmother and a family pet. Talk to your friends, urges our elder. You’ll be surprised at how much they can help. Dear…
Grieving for my cat
He was only nine months old – I have lost my baby boy forever. I’m so sorry, says our elder. Please know that this will get better in time. …
A fight with Mom that escalated
I hurt myself with a knife and now she wants me gone. Our elder has some advice on how to get this letter writer’s relationship with her mom back on…
I’m not pregnant, but she is!
My girlfriend got pregnant and I’ve decided to stay with her. How can I tell my mom? Just share your truth with her, says our elder. I’m sure she’ll appreciate…
My brother’s getting married
I’m scared I’m going to lose him. There’s no limit to love, says our elder. Your brother will always be there for you. Enjoy the wedding! Dear EWC Hi,…
Sure, they pay for everything…
But I’d still like to set some boundaries with my parents. Our elder helps a letter writer who has just moved back home and needs a little space. Dear…
They’re angry, I’m angry…
My parents have a short fuse, and when they scold me I lose my temper too. How can I control myself? Anger is an emotion, says our elder. You can…