There’s no escape from my family right now – how can I get to be alone? I can understand your frustration, says our elder. Here are a few ideas on…
Is it my fault Mom’s depressed?
Not at all, says our elder. You’re a good person. Here are some ideas on how you can help your mom. Dear EWC My mother seems to have withdrawn…
My friend’s unloving family
I have a friend whose parents are very traditional, and she feels that they put their own feelings before hers. How can I help here? Our elder has some advice…
Growing apart from Mom
Can we reconnect before I go to college? I appreciate your maturity, says our elder. Here are a few suggestions for tackling a conversation with your mom. Dear EWC…
Guess what, Mom – I’m an adult
Alcohol, a boyfriend and atheism: How do I tell my mom about my real life? Your mom was 19 once too, says our elder. Why not open up to her…
Full of frustration and regret
No wonder, says our elder! Taking care of her thankless parents has left this 40 year-old feeling like a failure. There is hope—but self-respect is essential to moving forward. …
A family afraid
An abusive father is making their life unbearable. You’re not to blame, says our elder, but you do need to seek help. Dear EWC: I am living with a narcissistic…
When you don’t fit in at home
Differences of opinion are dividing this family. People are entitled to their own views, says our elder. The key is not to let them drive us apart. Dear EWC: Sometimes…
Am I enough?
This adoptee feels empty and rejected. You’re not alone, says our elder, and you deserve love. It’s OK to ask for it. Dear EWC: Hi, I’m 19 years old and…
COVID is keeping us apart
How to handle family visits when politics and a pandemic intervene? Our elder believes it begins with honesty and respect. Dear EWC: I’m sure I’m not the only parent/grandparent in…