What to do when family gatherings are more hostile than happy? Our elder offers a simple solution for this mom and her son. Dear EWC: I have written before with…
Am I a Scrooge for skipping out?
Her new boss needs her in the office. Her boyfriend’s mom wants them home for the holidays. Find out how our elder suggests honoring Christmases past, present, and yet to…
Holidays. Family. Money.
Each one can be stressful, but all together—in the same house? Get this conflict under control, says our elder, and do it before Christmas. Dear EWC: OK, so last year…
My parents are avoiding me
What to do when you’re not getting the support you need from your family? Our elder advises that even mom and dad get stressed and offers a few ideas on…
They’re excited to welcome baby
But how does this couple get would-be grandparents with very diverse views onboard? Our elder helps sort through the issues and come up with a plan. Dear EWC: I’m currently…
A full house for the holidays
This college student wonders if she’s being selfish to want everyone together. Our elder thinks not—and has a few hints on how to make it happen. Dear EWC: I am…
I’m 30 and I need out
This teacher is more than ready to leave home. But how to tell mom and dad? Our elder scripts a dialogue that may help soften the blow. Dear EWC: I…
But what about our kids?
When the ex-husband’s a narcissist, mom has good reason to worry. Our elder suggests he just might be incapable of loving anyone but himself. Dear EWC: My ex-husband repeatedly cheated,…
I’m leaving and Dad’s in tears
Moving out can be hard on parents, says our elder. But don’t let your dad’s emotions hold you hostage. Dear EWC: I recently told my family that I wanted to…
My dad is a Vietnam veteran
For this son, the war affected his dad in ways he can’t understand. Our elder, also a Vietnam veteran, shares his perspective and says it’s never too late to connect….