Does this new dad have a right to know where his son is? Not an unrealistic expectation according to our elder, who offers ideas on how to convey that to…
The family snitch?
When younger sister catches older brother stealing, should she tell mom? As difficult as it may be, our elder says, “Yes.” And do it now. Dear EWC: Hi! I’m a…
The play’s the thing
For this teen, singing and theater keep her dreams afloat. But mom’s criticism is dragging her down. Our elder reviews a few therapy options to get them back on script….
Can I ever forgive their abuse?
She’s made peace with her husband but not his enabling mom. Read on for our elder’s advice on how to let go and move forward. Dear EWC: I need help….
How to talk about racism
What do you do when a parent won’t acknowledge the issues? Presenting the facts is a good start, says our elder, but connecting with personal stories may be a more…
Dreading the holiday drama
What to do when family gatherings are more hostile than happy? Our elder offers a simple solution for this mom and her son. Dear EWC: I have written before with…
Am I a Scrooge for skipping out?
Her new boss needs her in the office. Her boyfriend’s mom wants them home for the holidays. Find out how our elder suggests honoring Christmases past, present, and yet to…
Holidays. Family. Money.
Each one can be stressful, but all together—in the same house? Get this conflict under control, says our elder, and do it before Christmas. Dear EWC: OK, so last year…
My parents are avoiding me
What to do when you’re not getting the support you need from your family? Our elder advises that even mom and dad get stressed and offers a few ideas on…
They’re excited to welcome baby
But how does this couple get would-be grandparents with very diverse views onboard? Our elder helps sort through the issues and come up with a plan. Dear EWC: I’m currently…