When the ex-husband’s a narcissist, mom has good reason to worry. Our elder suggests he just might be incapable of loving anyone but himself. Dear EWC: My ex-husband repeatedly cheated,…
I’m leaving and Dad’s in tears
Moving out can be hard on parents, says our elder. But don’t let your dad’s emotions hold you hostage. Dear EWC: I recently told my family that I wanted to…
My dad is a Vietnam veteran
For this son, the war affected his dad in ways he can’t understand. Our elder, also a Vietnam veteran, shares his perspective and says it’s never too late to connect….
COVID-19 in the house
When you’re staying “safer-at-home,” should you feel guilty turning family away? Our elder thinks not, and here’s why. Dear EWC: Hello, and firstly thank you for taking the time to…
See you soon
Does leaving for college mean losing touch with the family? It doesn’t have to, says our elder. Read on for tips on staying close from afar. Dear EWC: Hi! I…
Leaving the nest
How to tell dad you’re ready to move out? Be honest, says our elder. Here’s how you can both prepare. Dear EWC: I’m not sure how to start this one……
Not feeling the motherly love
Where are the hugs? Why does she make me cry? Not all moms mother in the same way, says our elder, but here’s how to get the comfort you seek….
What if I’m a non-believer?
My parents are religious. I’m not. Our elder counsels that even when your beliefs differ, respect is the common ground. Dear EWC: My family is very religious. Believes in god…
I can’t be “me” around family
Do I have to risk losing them just to speak my mind? Compromise can be hard says our elder—but it may be worth it to keep the peace. Dear EWC:…
My filthy home
I’m sick of cleaning up after a busy mom, two teen brothers and a dog — but I can’t live in filth. Do what you can without driving yourself crazy,…