When you’re staying “safer-at-home,” should you feel guilty turning family away? Our elder thinks not, and here’s why. Dear EWC: Hello, and firstly thank you for taking the time to…
See you soon
Does leaving for college mean losing touch with the family? It doesn’t have to, says our elder. Read on for tips on staying close from afar. Dear EWC: Hi! I…
Leaving the nest
How to tell dad you’re ready to move out? Be honest, says our elder. Here’s how you can both prepare. Dear EWC: I’m not sure how to start this one……
Not feeling the motherly love
Where are the hugs? Why does she make me cry? Not all moms mother in the same way, says our elder, but here’s how to get the comfort you seek….
What if I’m a non-believer?
My parents are religious. I’m not. Our elder counsels that even when your beliefs differ, respect is the common ground. Dear EWC: My family is very religious. Believes in god…
I can’t be “me” around family
Do I have to risk losing them just to speak my mind? Compromise can be hard says our elder—but it may be worth it to keep the peace. Dear EWC:…
My filthy home
I’m sick of cleaning up after a busy mom, two teen brothers and a dog — but I can’t live in filth. Do what you can without driving yourself crazy,…
Should I forgive my stepdad?
My parents are divorcing and I know it’s hard for my stepdad… but after a falling-out, he still owes me an apology, right? Give yourself a little time, says our…
Moving out but Dad keeps crying
I want to move into a house my grandparents left me, but my dad isn’t taking it well. Our elder warns against being held hostage to a parent’s emotions —…
No, I don’t want to see Mom!
I am estranged from my mom but she just tried to establish contact. How can I deal with it? Why not write her a letter, says our elder. You don’t…