Where are the hugs? Why does she make me cry? Not all moms mother in the same way, says our elder, but here’s how to get the comfort you seek….
What if I’m a non-believer?
My parents are religious. I’m not. Our elder counsels that even when your beliefs differ, respect is the common ground. Dear EWC: My family is very religious. Believes in god…
I can’t be “me” around family
Do I have to risk losing them just to speak my mind? Compromise can be hard says our elder—but it may be worth it to keep the peace. Dear EWC:…
My filthy home
I’m sick of cleaning up after a busy mom, two teen brothers and a dog — but I can’t live in filth. Do what you can without driving yourself crazy,…
Moving out but Dad keeps crying
I want to move into a house my grandparents left me, but my dad isn’t taking it well. Our elder warns against being held hostage to a parent’s emotions —…
My brother the manipulator
I love my brother but he’s thoughtless and entitled. Our elder thinks a few other adjectives might be appropriate… and has some suggestions on how to establish boundaries. Dear EWC…
Cuckoo in the nest
My brother’s girlfriend moved in during the pandemic and now I feel miserable in my own house. It doesn’t help that my mom is close to her. Start by having…
They’re called boundaries, Dad!
It’s great that my dad has been helping to look after my son, but now I can’t get rid of him. Establish a schedule, says our elder — for childcare…
My parents v my dream school
I got a scholarship to a great school but my parents wouldn’t let me go. Take a deep breath and move on, says our elder. Dear EWC I have ADHD,…
Should I buy a wedding gift?
My niece is having a destination wedding and she’s not paying for my side of the family to come. I don’t want to go, but do I need to buy…