How can I show my friends that I’ve changed? Our elder has some tips on becoming “the interesting guy” instead. Dear EWC Growing up, I was never really into the…
My ex best friend reached out…
… but only to add me as a Facebook friend. Should I message him? Only if you can handle possibly getting a disappointing response, says our elder. Some people are…
Should I do a porch concert?
I want to do a porch concert for my friend’s mom — but what if they say no? It’s a lovely idea, says our elder. Go for it! Dear EWC…
I’ve lost that friendship vibe
Quarantine was kind of a relief. Am I a bad friend? We’re all feeling a little off-kilter, says our elder. Talk to your friends and find out how they’re feeling….
Abandoned in the ER
My neighbor left me in the ER but when I told her I was hurt, she shunned me! Was I wrong? It sounds like she is showing her true colors,…
Is this friendship?
Because if so, it sucks. Our elder has some advice for a letter writer who’s seeking some new and better friends. Dear EWC When I was younger I never had…
Is she really non-binary?
My friend just came out as non-binary but I don’t think this has come from a good place. Don’t challenge her on this, says our elder. Being a good friend…
BF’s husband is in love with me
He called me to confess and I was completely blindsided. Help! You can’t guarantee a good outcome, says our elder. But you might be able to limit the damage. Dear…
My friend broke my $500 guitar!
Should he have to pay for it? Our elder helps a letter writer who’s feeling guilty about expecting his friend to foot the bill. Dear EWC Last night I had…
A one word reply?
My best friend can’t be bothered to text me properly. Is she a fake? Everyone communicates differently, says our elder. But sit down and have a conversation. Dear EWC There’s…