My co-worker follows me on breaks but then ignores me! It’s very hurtful. You’re right, says our elder. Approach him directly to find out why he does this, and go…
Oops! I wasn’t an ally
During a conversation about sex, I might have inadvertently offended one of my friends. How do I make this right? Don’t stress, says our elder. She’ll appreciate an apology. …
Don’t stand so close to me
My friend constantly interrupts by getting so close I can’t breathe. Should I point this out to her? Talk to your friend, says our elder. You’re doing her a favor…
Does my best friend hate me?
She sent me a breakup text but next time I saw her it was just like normal. Her behavior is not acceptable, says our elder. Explain your feelings but stay…
The third wheel in my own house
My best friend has been distant ever since we moved in with a mutual friend. I feel so alone. Start being a best friend to yourself, says our elder, and…
Three’s a crowd
Do I need to invite my roommate along every time I have a date with my boyfriend? Er… no, says our elder. Sit them down and clarify the boundaries. …
“Your mom’s invited – not you!”
This letter writer has a friend who embarrassed her in public. Should she still speak to her? Not if you don’t want to, says our elder. Her behavior was inexcusable….
How do I drop him nicely?
Growing out of a friendship doesn’t make you a bad person. Our elder has some tips for easing out of a friendship that doesn’t feel right. Dear EWC So…
Nothing feels normal
This letter writer feels lonely after spending time in another city. Our elder shares their own experience of anxiety and has some tips: embrace life, and don’t be afraid to…
Six hours? I’m legit too busy
Our elder helps a people pleaser who finds it hard to say no. How can they schedule time with a good friend without bailing on their other priorities? Dear…