I don’t want to marry the last guy who proposed… but I’m so lonely! That’s no reason to rush into marriage, says our elder. Expand your network while you figure…
I cheated; she’s pregnant
Should I tell my wife? Be clear about what you want to happen, says our elder. But have an honest discussion with your wife. Dear EWC OK, so I got…
My selfish husband or my mom?
Should I move to be with my husband and hope he treats me well this time? It would mean leaving my mom all alone… Our elder encourages a letter writer…
Four more years with no sex?
I live with my girlfriend and her parents. We can’t get married for another four years, and she doesn’t believe in sex before marriage. Can I hold out that long?…
Polyamory problems
It was all going so well until I started falling for the ‘other’ guy. Then my husband got mad. Maybe he’s shown you what you’re missing in your marriage, suggests…
Will I end up in debt like Mom?
My husband is tired of me saying no — but I’m worried about our finances and scared I’ll end up like my mom. Our elder recommends setting a budget, and…
I need my husband by my side…
… All. The. Time. I know it annoys him, but I hate it when he wants to go out. Our elder suspects the letter writer’s new baby has a lot…
My wife hates my leggings!
I like wearing leggings, but my wife says they make me look like a crossdresser. Maybe save them for the gym, says our elder — if only in the interests…
My mean stepdaughter
Next time my stepdaughter comes to stay, I want to escape to a hotel. Am I being unreasonable? Not at all, says our elder. Stay out of her way, and…
Husband wants to change gender
I support him — but what do I tell my children, asks a letter writer. Our elder admires her attitude and has some advice on how to start the conversation….