Well, there’s really only one answer to this. Our elder shares her memories to give a father-of-four — and a reluctant helper — a different perspective. Dear EWC My wife…
He wants to move to Hawaii
My husband wants to move to a trailer in Hawaii, but I have responsibilities here. Am I being selfish? Our elder recommends counseling to come up with a compromise. Dear…
My husband did meth…
…and I’m five months pregnant. Should I leave him? You are right to be worried, advises our elder. Get out as soon as you can. Dear EWC I am five…
He thinks I’m a cheater!
A letter writer’s husband can’t get over his fear of being cheated on — and she’s fed up of being falsely accused. This is not a good situation, says our…
You’re at the strip club, liar!
My lying husband said he was going for dinner with a colleague — but I found him at the strip club! Can I ever trust him again? Our elder is…
What will I do if you die?
A letter writer’s husband has cancer, but he’s in denial about just how sick he is. How can she get him to talk to her about their finances? Our elder…
Bullied by my in-laws
My in-laws’ behavior is so hurtful that I’m considering divorce. Our elder says: it’s time your husband had a word with them. Dear EWC I have been with my husband…
He’s a 10, I’m a 4
A letter writer doesn’t feel that she deserves her wonderful husband. Can our elder convince her otherwise? Dear EWC My husband is by far the sweetest, kindest, smartest, funniest, most…
I want cuddles, not gifts!
Gifts are not the same as affection. Can our elder help a newly married couple speak the same language? Dear EWC Hello, I’m 21 years old and have been married…
“No sex until you behave!”
A letter writer’s husband has refused to have sex with her until she agrees to another child. Dear EWC My husband has a child from a previous relationship. And he…