I Dreamed of Having a Husband and Children But I’m Afraid it will Never Happen “I’ve had several boyfriends that would have been perfect partners to raise a family with,…
Where Should I Move, and How Do I Tell My Parents I’m Leaving?
“My culture expects me to live with my parents after college, but I need to pursue my own life.” Our Elder says: “Being a mature adult includes having the courage…
I Am More Than the Color of My Skin.
“I strive to overcome every stereotype and to create joy, but it seems the world no longer appreciates a true gentleman.” Our Elder says: “Don’t give up. You have a…
The Very Bad Roommate
“My roommate is so messy and makes so much noise that I am not getting enough sleep.” Our Elder says: “Establish firm boundaries and take care of yourself first. Your…
I took them both for granted…
And now they’re gone. Our elder counsels a letter writer who wants to turn her grief into something good. Dear EWC Hi Elder Wisdom Circle. Thank you for taking the…
Will I meet someone like me?
This college student is finding it hard to make friends. You’ll never find someone exactly like you, says our elder. The key is to celebrate your individuality without regretting your…
I just want to be sad for a bit
This letter writer is struggling to love and accept herself. Our elder says it’s fine to stay with your feelings for a while – but not forever. Here are some…
I “helped” a friend. Uh-oh.
She said I cared too much and now she’s not talking to me. Our elder has some advice on how to help a friend without being over-protective. Dear EWC…
Taylor Swift movie: yes or no?
The thing is, I have tickets to see her in concert next year. Our elder consults her granddaughter for help with this dilemma. Dear EWC Hello! I am currently…
Does Santa exist?
This letter writer wants to believe again. Luckily, our elder knows Santa personally… Dear EWC I don’t really believe in Santa and some articles say yes, he is real…