A letter writer wonders whether to move state with her boyfriend or to stay with her family. It’s a tough decision, says our elder – but it’s not irreversible. …
I’m a burden
A letter writer needs help but is scared to talk to her family. Can our elder persuade her to tell them about everything she’s been holding in? Dear EWC…
Too scared to learn to drive
A letter writer is so scared of driving that she didn’t even show up for the test. Our elder has some practical advice on how to get over her fear…
Sleepless but scared to complain
My neighbour’s alarm clock wakes me at 6am – but I don’t want to complain in case they think I’m racist. It’s an issue about noise, says our elder. Have…
Father figure’s bad vibes
I got very attached to one of my high school teachers – but now I think it’s time to let go. Absolutely, says our elder. Pay attention to those red…
Do I have ADHD?
My husband thinks so, but I can’t afford the doctor appointments to find out. There are low-cost ways to get the help you need, says our elder. And don’t judge…
Guilt or revenge?
A girl ruined my life last year; this year the tables turned. Am I a bad person? One episode doesn’t define who we are, says our elder. From now on,…
Should I come out to Mom?
She knows I’m bisexual, but not that I’m non-binary. Set aside some time and share your truth with her, says our elder. It’s at the core of who you are….
It’s over – or is it?
This husband can’t work out whether or not his wife really wants to separate. Right now, you’re letting her make all the decisions, says our elder. It’s time to take…
I’m insecure; he’s not helping
My boyfriend knows that my ex cheated on me, but he doesn’t understand my insecurity. Work on your communication, says our elder – and focus on the present, not the…