… but I need a job and my brother depends on me. Can our elder persuade a self-confessed “bedroom lurker” to take the first step? Dear EWC So I’ve been…
All I need is love
I feel ashamed that I can’t show my son what a good relationship looks like. Why can’t I be happy? Take some time out, say our elders, and focus on…
My imaginary friend: I’m 29!
I created my imaginary friend when I was bullied growing up — but he’s still around. Don’t let him prevent you from reaching out for friendship, says our elder. Dear…
I can’t even say my name!
My stammer isn’t severe, but it’s making me depressed and anxious. Our elder has a few coping strategies to suggest — some more out-there than others. Dear EWC I want…
How do I talk without blushing?
I can’t speak to new people without my face going hot. Is there a secret to being more confident? There sure is, says our elder. Fake it till you make…
Help! I think I’m a narcissist
I’ve noticed that I have to be the center of attention all the time. How can I stop? Our elder has some tips on how to raise your self-esteem, and…
Did my therapist screw me up?
After eight years of working with my therapist, I have lost my family and have no friends. Was I right to kick her to the curb? It sounds like you…
Nobody takes me seriously!
All my life, I’ve been dismissed and brushed aside. I have a successful life — so why is everyone still treating me like this? Our elder has some strategies for…
Stop being so stubborn
A letter writer feels that she’s too argumentative, and she wants to change. It’s good to stand up for what you believe in, says our elder. How about channeling your…
Should I shave my head?
A letter writer wants to shave her hair off, but worries that she might regret it and spiral back into bad habits. Can our elder help her feel better about…