“My friends all have lots of money and find school easy, while I struggle with everything. How do I stop being jealous?” Our Elder team advises: “It is normal to…
Am I Being Compulsive If I Drop an Inconsiderate Friend?
“I was planning an outing with a friend, then they went without me and never called.” Our Elder says: “You cannot control other people’s behavior, and friends are bound to …
Social phobia and a ton of debt
How can I make a success of my life? Writing down your thoughts can help you figure it out, says our elder. Here’s some homework to get you started. …
My mind is a tornado
How can I stop the chaos? You aren’t alone, says our elder. Try countering your negative emotions with positive thoughts. Dear EWC Whenever I write in my journal, I…
Whoah, medicine is hard!
This letter writer is having second thoughts about their career plans. Our elder has some tips on choosing a path that fits. Dear EWC You know that feeling, when…
Tired of talking first
When I meet new people, it’s always me who makes the first approach. Should I wait for them to talk first? Be optimistic, says our elder. Positive affirmations are a…
Starting college: I’m lost!
This letter writer is scared about starting college life and making friends with people. Our elder has some helpful tips: Make eye contact, show interest, and don’t forget to smile….
Third time lucky?
This letter writer is sitting the university entrance exam for the third time. Can our elder help her find the motivation to sit down and study this time? Dear…
I think I’m a disgusting person
OCD has pushed me to the edge of my sanity. Am I alone with this? Not at all, says our elder. Reach out for professional help where you can discuss…
So much to do, so little time…
Time management is overwhelming, so why am I even thinking about finding a job? You can do it, says our elder. Here’s how to conquer the to-do list. Dear…