Whenever I post on social media or send an email, I completely overthink it. Can you help me stop stressing? Our elder helps this letter writer let go of perfection…
Help! I just realized I’m ugly
Makeup, skincare… I’ve tried everything. Give yourself a break, says our elder, and learn to love yourself. Trust me: this will get better. Dear EWC Growing up, I didn’t…
Telling my boyfriend I’m bi
A letter writer is questioning her sexuality and is wondering how to approach it with her boyfriend. Talk to other people first, says our elder, and then handle it sensitively…
Don’t dismiss my anxiety, Mom!
I get so anxious that I find it difficult to breathe, but my family says I’m being melodramatic. Keep talking to your counselor, says our elder, and find the methods…
Should I switch to acting?
A college student is thinking of majoring in acting but her social anxiety is a big hurdle. Why not try baby steps, suggests our elder. Try a drama group but…
I want the happily ever after
But how do I choose the right guy? Our elder has some wise words for a letter writer who worries about being “boy crazy”. Dear EWC I’m 17 years…
The reluctant lawyer
This letter writer just graduated from law school but she’s feeling too overwhelmed to start her internship. Take it step by step, says our elder. You can do this. …
My dad’s a deadbeat
My family and financial problems are draining my energy. Seek professional help, says our elder, and reframe the narrative. It’s time to show yourself some love. Dear EWC Hi….
I want to shave my head
This letter writer wants to make a statement. Why not consider some alternatives, suggests our elder. Dear EWC So, I’m 16 years old and I want to shave my…
My dark side
Selfish, insecure… How can I get over my self-hatred? It’s great that you’re paying attention to your feelings, says our elder. Consider therapy, help others, and find someone to talk…